Today is a special day in which all dads are thanked, honored, and remembered. It is Father’s Day and we celebrate all our dads and all the men in our life that were like a dad to us. I have my one and only amazing father, but there are several others who have been like a dad to me over the years…like my father in law and good family friend of ours.
Today is an interesting day in our family. From first glance, most would look at Raun and say “Happy Father’s Day”, “Is this your first child” or “Happy First Father’s Day”. But for those that know our family, this isn’t his first Father’s Day. His first one happened three years ago, the first June after Samantha was born. Raun has been a dad for three years now, his roll has just changed a little bit now. Yes, this is the first Father’s Day with Timothy, but that doesn’t make it his first go around the block on this special day.
It’s has been an interesting week leading up to Father’s Day that has gotten me think. I receive email offers from some of my favorite local restaurants throughout the year. This week my inbox has been flooded with Father’s Day deals. Interestingly enough, the deal is bring in the family of four and dad receives something free. Family of four…we are a family of four. But if we were to walk into one of these restaurants I am guessing people would think we are crazy. There is a part of me that wants to email the place back and share our story, there is also a part that kind of just wants to show up the restaurant with crew in tow and something of Samantha’s, and yet still a part of me that wants to celebrate on a low key style & have the same responses to people who don’t know as we did for Mother’s Day. It’s such a weird place to be. We are a family of four, but look like a family of three.
I believe that families who have experienced the loss of a child learn a new way to celebrate holidays. And each year looks a little bit different. So I say, celebrate this special day however you want. May you have the courage and strength to find something memorable in the day. Today is a blessing. Happy Father’s Day to all the dads out there!
Happy Father’s day to you Raun! You are an amazing dad to our two beautiful children!!